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Finding Joy in the everyday
Finding Joy in the everyday
  • That was God, not coincidence!July 7, 2024
    Is God in the details? Or is cosmic energy and coincidence responsible for the outcome? Either answer requires faith. A few years back, my daughter Reegan had major knee surgery to reinforce loose ligaments.  She…
  • When unexpected flowers grow in unplanned placesJune 16, 2024
    My gardens lie frozen underneath a white blanket of snow as I dream of things to come. The breeze twists last year’s foliage, taunting it to let go, but it stubbornly clings to the branch….
  • Christmas music tugs on the memories of Christmas pastDecember 19, 2023
    Music has a way of tugging memories from the back of your mind and dropping them in your lap.  🎄“Up on the rooftop” brings me back to my first solo in our annual school Christmas…
  • Thanksgiving, when you don’t feel like it!October 9, 2023
    Can I be thankful when life is too complicated, when grief and the unexpected knock down my door? When my emotions are raw, and I am misunderstood can I be thankful? Maybe it’s been a…
  • Resilient adults are not created in a vacuumAugust 31, 2023
    It was a full day yesterday, blanching the garden beans, defrosting the freezer, and making applesauce long after everyone was asleep. It’s the beginning of the “squirrelling away” season. I imagine pulling out a bag…
  • To the mamma who’s tired of not getting it right (and afraid she’s losing control!)April 27, 2023
    We have so many expectations for ourselves and our children. We strive to do all the things required to nurture tomorrows adults. We read books on best methods we follow advice (and sometimes the crowd…
  • Passion week begins; Who do you say Jesus is?April 2, 2023
    Palm Sunday begins the week known as Passion week. It’s a week filled with triumph, tragedy and the greatest victory known in history.  The Jews of Jesus’ day were looking for someone to save them…
  • Eight surefire ways to become a cantankerous old woman!December 27, 2022
    As the new year approaches, we look for ways to improve ourselves.  There are many self-help recommendations and how-tos, from organizing your home to weight loss and healthy living. Here are my eight surefire ways to…
  • If you’re tired this Christmas!December 26, 2022
    I don’t remember what I was thinking. I just know I was in a deep fog of shock and sadness. When our fourth child was born eighteen Decembers ago, life went out of focus for…
  • Christmas hope, unwrapping the GiftDecember 23, 2022
    There were no wrapped presents for me underneath a sparkling Christmas tree. In fact, in my early years, we did not have a Christmas tree in our home.  Christmas Eve, all of us kids would…
  • Searching for Christmas Joy when Christmas feels blueDecember 13, 2022
    How could the birth of a baby thousands of years ago impact my life today? How can this Child bring peace to my chaotic world? The answer is in the Name given to this baby…
  • Brain dump: Lessons in a Guatemalan villageDecember 10, 2022
    I am sitting here by my lit Christmas tree, a fire in the fireplace, sipping coffee, and my mind has a hard time computing all I have experienced in the last few weeks. The juxtaposition…
  • Christmas hope is more than wishful thinkingNovember 29, 2022
  • Are you too afraid to have JOY?November 19, 2022
    You might say it’s just a play on words, but hear me out.  If happiness is a feeling, let’s consider JOY as its older, more mature, stable cousin. JOY doesn’t leave at the first hint…
  • So this is what fifty looks likeOctober 27, 2022
    Here are a few things I have learned in my fifty-plus years: ☕️ coffee. It’s a great way to start the morning. And afternoon. And evening. 😻 pets. They are cheaper than therapy and soothe…
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    When detours become unexpected blessingsOctober 26, 2022
    The words crashed through my mind as my gaze landed on the baby quilt folded at the end of the crib. My body, numb with shock from the turn of events, was slow to obey,…
  • When fear of change locks you in a prison of your own makingOctober 22, 2022
    They have found a rhythm, and change introduces unfamiliarity and fears they have no desire to face. Even if a new direction is potentially a wise choice and an improvement to their lives, they have…
  • How can I find God’s will for my life?September 14, 2022
    Some of the big questions in a Christian’s life are: – What is God’s will for my life? – How will I know what He wants me to do? – How do I know if…
  • Are you on an emotional rollercoaster now that Suzie is off to college?August 11, 2022
    I can’t be the only one sitting here pulling on the reins of August, begging for the long summer evenings with its golden hour to stay a little longer! The crops are turning colour, the…
  • What does it mean to make God my dwelling place?July 30, 2022
  • A most dangerous game that you should never playJune 15, 2022
    How do you stop playing the comparison game? It’s a game with no winners, only discouragement for the participants. We’ve often heard, “Don’t compare yourself to others!” “but do we listen?  Just this morning, I…
  • When too many choices cause you to make no decisions!May 20, 2022
    “Show me the right path, O Lord; point out the road for me to follow.” Psalms 25:4 NLT  Are you stuck in a rut of indecision? Sometimes we need to start forward momentum even if…
  • Uncle OttoMay 18, 2022
    I’d like to give you a glimpse into some of the lighthearted interactions between Reegan and Uncle Otto in the last few years.  You have to know Uncle Otto. He has a dry sense of…
  • Taking the ME out of prayerMay 5, 2022
    When we come before the Almighty In prayer isn’t it absurd how much we talk about ourselves? Dear Lord like a salutation please bless please protect please help please heal please please please In Jesus…
  • When we find ourselves waiting for SundayApril 16, 2022
    As we celebrate Easter this year what do we make of the day in between? The day after Christ’s death, but before His triumph? How do we contemplate each day giving it the significance it…
  • When it feels like God has forgotten about youApril 8, 2022
    How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and day after day have sorrow in my heart? How…
  • We crave stability in an unstable worldMarch 21, 2022
    Stability. We crave it in this ever-changing, unstable climate we currently live in. Everywhere we turn, we hear bad news. We want someone to tell us that good news is just around the corner.  Is…
  • How important is self love?February 14, 2022
    “People love at their level of self love.” This is a quote by Dr. Caroline Leaf, a communication pathologist and cognitive neuroscientist. It struck me as relevant. We all need to be loved and accepted,…
  • What now that the holidays are over?January 6, 2022
    The tree has been taken down, the decorations stored in their boxes under the stairs for another year. The kids have left, gone back to work or school. The house is oddly quiet again, the…
  • When Jesus takes the wheel!December 31, 2021
    You know that moment when you feel like Jesus literally took the wheel? You have to admit that you did not escape harm without the presence of a higher power. It’s in those times that…
  • Are you looking for a Christmas miracle?December 23, 2021
     Did you read about the 17 missionaries who escaped their captors in Haiti? It is nothing short of a Christmas miracle! The group, including women and children, walked out in the middle of the night,…
  • I bring you good news!December 17, 2021
    And there was in the same country… a stressed-out mom needing a rest, an unemployed single drifting through life, a weeping, broken heart, an empty nested mother needing a hug, a frail gramma whose children…
  • Suddenly she’s Eighteen!December 2, 2021
    Happy 18th, girl! How can this already be so? You are skipping into eighteen with glee, and I’m dragging in, fingers clenched around the reins, white-knuckled, holes torn in the knees, dirt on my face…
  • Additude adjustmentNovember 8, 2021
    I write a lot about trust and faith in God, not because I have an abundance of it, but because I am familiar with the struggle. I understand what it is like to doubt the…
  • Live in the MomentOctober 29, 2021
    All the popular catchphrases such as “live in the moment,” “be present,” “live intentionally”; do they leave you feeling slightly confused and a little frustrated? They sound warm and fuzzy, but how do you put…
  • Lord, you have examined me and know all about me!August 25, 2021
    “Lord, you have examined me and know all about me.  (Ok, I’m squirming a bit here. You know ALL about me? I’m not sure we should be friends…) You know when I sit down and…
  • How does fear cause you to miss out?August 11, 2021
    I watched my 82-year-old friend dive into the summer lake while I sat in the boat with my fear.  As a child, it was ingrained in me to be afraid of deep water, and I…
  • Top Reasons why I don’t need Church to be a ChristianJune 12, 2021
    There are many reasons why someone might say that they don’t need the church to be a Christian.  1. The top most relevant reason has come to us thanks to the health crisis of this…
  • The day in betweenApril 3, 2021
    As we celebrate Easter this year what do we make of the day in between? The day after Christ’s death, but before His triumph? How do we contemplate each day giving it the significance it…
  • It is Finished!April 2, 2021
    Today Christians solemnly unite to remember the death of Jesus, the suffering Son of God who hung on a cruel cross to bring us life and freedom.   Some of us will be gathering in half-empty…
  • An Angry Jesus?March 29, 2021
    Do I cause righteous anger over my casual disobedience?
  • What is Passion Week?March 28, 2021
    The week leading up to Easter is called Passion Week.  Why the word Passion? How does this word depict the week leading up to the death of Jesus? Could it be because of the passion…
  • Do you have faith?March 25, 2021
    We all believe in something Do you have faith?  No, I’m not religious, you say.  But I say you do  have faith. Do you not sow a seed in the ground and patiently wait  for…
  • Does your thought life lead to depression?February 20, 2021
    Depression is something we don’t like to talk about, but most of us have either dealt with it personally or know of someone that has.  Depression feels like darkness. It feels like all hope is…
  • Living in the RutFebruary 18, 2021
    It may be February, but there’s still time for “new year/new me” changes. Are you living in a rut that you are struggling to get out of? Can I improve something in my life without…
  • Romance isn’t enoughFebruary 14, 2021
    It’s Valentine’s Day…again. Some of us love the romance, flowers and chocolates. We dress in pinks and reds, adorned in pretty little hearts, giddy for the day. Some of us groan and go along with…
  • Hope! A Savior has been born!December 25, 2020
    Merry Christmas from our home to yours! Christmas day is winding down; darkness is falling. Some people hold onto each lingering moment, feeling the sadness of a happy day gone too fast. Others can’t wait…
  • No room, no time, no hopeDecember 17, 2020
    The people were all busy.  They dragged themselves from their beds when the sun came up and fell exhausted,  into sleep at night.  They scurried around all day with their planners, schedules, meetings, deadlines and…
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    Christmas hope…am I spreading hope?December 4, 2020
    Bundled up against the frigid winter air, I lay on the snowbank beside the homemade skating rink and gazed up into the black sky hanging full of glittering stars, like ripe cherries ready for the…
  • Christmas hope when you’re stumbling in the dark!November 27, 2020
    When we have no grounds for believing something good might happen, we begin to feel hopeless. We feel like we are stumbling in the dark.
  • Christmas brings hope for 2020!November 20, 2020
    Is Christmas a “hope reset” for 2021?
  • Letter to my sons on Remembrance DayNovember 11, 2020
    Hi Boys!  How are you doing these days?  Are you keeping up with all your studies?  Have you been eating well?  How’s the cafeteria food?  I hope you’re eating your fruits and veggies! Remember what I…
  • In the age of viruses, protests, wars and economic declineMarch 3, 2020
    The pastor in church this morning tells me that there are two things I’ve got to know. There is a God. I’m not it. Are you twisted with worry that the thin veneer of control…
  • What happens when God stirs up the soul?February 28, 2020
    My soul is like a pot of soup; if left unstirred, everything settles to the bottom. But if I let God’s word stir me up, things begin to float to the surface. And when the…
  • What is the definition of mind games?September 6, 2019
     I asked Siri for the definition of “mind games”. Her response was that it is  “a course of psychologically manipulative behaviour intended to discomfit another person or gain an advantage over them”. It’s an ancient…
  • Can it still be a year of Gratitude?January 6, 2019
    The new year often brings about a renewed desire to do better, be better, exercise, organize, eat healthier…generally just being a better you. It’s reflected in the stores too…if you buy that new item, this will…
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